The 7 Conversations Every Couple Should Have Before Saying “I Do”
- cristina024
- Sep 19
- 1 min read
Introduction
Marriage is a beautiful commitment but it’s also a merging of two lives, values, and histories. Without open conversations beforehand, couples often stumble into misunderstandings that could have been avoided.
The best wedding gift you can give each other is clarity and connection before you say ‘I do.’
The 7 Essential Conversations
1. Finances
How will you handle money?
Will you combine accounts, keep them separate, or both?
What’s your approach to budgeting and debt?
2. Family & In-Laws
How involved will extended family be?
How will you spend holidays and handle traditions?
3. Career Goals
Where do you see yourselves in 5–10 years?
How will career changes impact your relationship?
4. Children
Do you want children? If so, when?
How will you divide parenting responsibilities?
5. Conflict Resolution
How do you each handle disagreements?
What’s your process for finding resolution?
6. Roles & Responsibilities
Who will take care of what at home?
How will you share emotional labour?
7. Lifestyle & Values
What are your non-negotiables?
What kind of life do you want to create together?
How Coaching Makes These Conversations Easier
Some topics can feel awkward or overwhelming. In pre-marital coaching, I provide a safe, neutral space to explore them. Using the SYMBIS Assessment, we uncover your shared strengths and highlight areas for growth before they cause tension.
Start your marriage with confidence, clarity, and connection.
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